As attachment parenting has become more popular, many feminists condemn
it as fundamentally oppressive to mothers. Their critique is based on misinterpretation and misrepresentation of
attachment theory, the neuro-psychological body of research that underlies attachment parenting. In
contravention of the great weight of scientific evidence, many feminists downplay the nurturance needs of
young children as a defensive measure against the neo-conservative backlash against changing women’s roles.
Mothers and their children would be better served by a feminist articulation of a real family values agenda that
calls for society to support fathers and mothers engaged in the socially meaningful work of child-rearing. KEY
WORDS: Attachment parenting, attachment theory, feminism, family values, child-rearing, nurturing.